The adoption process varies from state to state. Sadly, there are some untrustworthy adoption coordinators out there. Whether you are an expectant mother considering adoption or a potential adoptive couple, keep an eye out for some definite red flags.
Are They Licensed?
A reputable adoption agency is fully licensed within the state where it operates. If the agency does not post its license on its website, ask to see it or check with your state’s licensing agency. If necessary, consult the Better Business Bureau.
You want your adoption to follow all state regulations without complications, so don’t be afraid to ask for information.
How Do They Treat the Expectant Mother?
No matter what circumstances have led a woman to consider adoption, everyone involved in the process deserves respect. Listen carefully to how the agency’s employees refer to her. An agency that profoundly cares for an expectant or birth mother counsels her thoroughly, explains the adoption process, and does not coerce her into placing her child.
The agency should give the expectant parents or birth parents complete control over selecting the potential adoptive parents and the amount of contact they hope to have with them and their child. They should work closely with each woman and prioritize her throughout the process and beyond.
An expectant or birth mother should ask specific questions when making an adoption plan. “Do you provide your services to me for free?” “Will it be hard to find potential adoptive parents for my baby?” “Will you help me make a hospital plan?” “What counseling will you provide once I’ve signed the adoption papers?”
An adoption isn’t a one-day event. It is a lifetime decision that requires trust and compassion.
How Do They Treat the Potential Adoptive Parents?
The adoption process is stressful for everyone involved. An agency must treat potential adoptive parents as individuals, not open wallets. The agency should fully reveal the cost of the process without unexpected financial surprises.
Potential adoptive couples should be made aware of every service the agency provides and what they must obtain on their own. A qualified agency provides the necessary services or referrals to complete the adoption process thoroughly.
As potential adoptive parents, ask specific questions about the process. “How often will we be contacted by someone at the agency?” “What is the expected wait time?” “Do you provide counseling or educational services regarding parenting adoptees?”
What to Expect When Working With A Gift of Hope Adoptions
A Gift of Hope Adoptions is a fully licensed Missouri child adoption agency. We provide the services and referrals that the state requires for all adoptions. Although licensed in Missouri, we work nationwide.
Our services are customizable to meet your specific needs. Whether you are still expecting, have given birth, or hope to adopt, we can assist you legally and ethically. Although filled with emotion and questions, adoption can be an excellent parenting choice for everyone.
Please complete our online contact form or call (888) 564-HOPE (4673). Let A Gift of Hope Adoptions walk with you through the process.
This blog is for informational purposes only. This is not legal or medical advice. While we try our best to reflect current laws with accuracy at the time of writing, please note the laws can change over time.